Okay, let's be honest – Mother's Day is a total whirlwind for me. One minute I'm reminiscing about those adorable baby years with my twins (and the epic diaper disasters!), and the next, I'm packing them off to college (seriously, where did the time go?).

Along the way, I've learned a few things – the hilarious, the hard, and the "you can't make this stuff up" moments that make up this wild ride called motherhood. Wanna hear the top five lessons from my survival guide?

Lesson 1: Embrace the Beautiful Mess (Because It Doesn't Last Forever)

Remember those first smiles, the wobbly steps, and playing peek-a-boo for the millionth time? Treasure those moments, mama, because they fly by. Before you know it, those same kiddos are rolling their eyes at you and disappearing into their rooms. So, even when the house looks like a toy store exploded, take a deep breath and remember, the mess won't last forever (but those memories will). #embrace the chaos of motherhood

Lesson 2: Laughter Will Get You Through Anything

Listen, some days motherhood feels like a circus act, and you're the ringmaster juggling flaming chainsaws (or at least that's what it feels like when both kids are melting down at once). The secret weapon? Laughter. Find the humor in spilled milk, crazy toddler tantrums, and the fact that you haven't brushed your hair in three days. It might just save your sanity. #humor helps with parenting challenges

Lesson 3: Even "Grown-Up" Kids Need You

You think once they have driver's licenses and opinions of their own, your job is done? Nope! College applications, relationship woes, and just figuring out life stuff...they'll still turn to you. Be there for them, offer a shoulder to cry on (or a box of tissues), and remind them you're their biggest fan (even when they act embarrassed). #adult children still need their mothers

Lesson 4: Self-Care Isn't Selfish, It's Survival

You know that saying, "you can't pour from an empty cup?" It's totally true. Schedule that massage, take a bubble bath, or simply hide in the closet with a good book for 10 minutes. Taking time for yourself makes you a better mom, not a worse one. #self-care for moms

Lesson 5: Cherish Your Partner, Your Friends, Your Sanity

Motherhood is a team sport. Don't forget to nurture your relationship with your partner, lean on your mama friends, and carve out time for the things that make you YOU. It's easy to get lost in kid schedules and laundry lists, but taking care of your own happiness is just as important. #support system for moms

So there you have it – straight from this twin mama's heart. Motherhood is messy, amazing, and totally unpredictable. But hey, wouldn't have it any other way!

Happy Mother's Day to all the incredible moms out there!

You rock!

P.S: In the spirit of celebrating incredible moms, I'm thrilled to be supporting Seattle Mom’s Prom! It's a super-fun evening of drinks, desserts, and dancing – the ultimate ladies' night out (and a fantastic way to support  ​Perinatal Support Washington.  earn more about the event and how you can join the fun [click HERE].